Do you have to have a funeral?
There is no law in the UK that states you must have a…
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When you pass away, the person who has the legal right to make decisions about your funeral will be your personal representative, also known as:
If you’ve made a Will, then the executor(s) of your Will would have the legal right to make decisions about your funeral.
If not, then the appointed administrator would have the legal right to make the decisions. This could be your spouse, civil partner, or any children you have over 18.
The executor or administrator would also be responsible for covering funeral costs.
However, they are not legally obliged to do this.
Continue reading this 2025 guide as we answer the question ‘who has the right to make decisions about your funeral?’.
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Who has the right to arrange your funeral depends on whether you’ve made a Will or not.
If there’s a Will
If there’s no Will
It’s important to be aware that the Rules of Intestacy doesn’t recognise unmarried partners.
This means if you don’t have a Will, and you’re in a long-term relationship but not married, then your partner wouldn’t have any legal right to make decisions about your funeral when you pass away.
There’s no legal requirement to pay for a funeral.
However, if someone chooses to enter a contract with a funeral director to carry out your funeral, then they’d be legally responsible to cover the cost of the funeral director fees.
In most cases, the closest family member would arrange and pay for a funeral. If not, the executor or administrator would be responsible for this, but it’s not a legal obligation.
The person who covers the initial cost may be able to recoup the money from the deceased’s estate once probate has completed.
If there’s no money from the estate to pay for a funeral, or the next of kin/personal representative can't afford to or refuses to cover the cost (and no arrangements have been made with a funeral director), then the local council would need to carry out a simple cremation without a ceremony (also known as a ‘paupers funeral’).
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This is a policy for UK residents aged between 50 - 85. The pay out (sum assured) is guaranteed as the plan lasts until you pass away.
The below table shows how much the monthly premiums could be for a non-smoker looking for £5,000 of cover:
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The personal representative of the deceased has legal possession of the body.
As mentioned, the personal representative could be the executor (if there’s a Will) or the administrator (if there’s no Will).
The person who has legal possession of a dead body also has the right or duty to dispose of it.
There are some instances in which other people could have legal possession of a dead body other than the executor or administrator. Although this may be on a temporary basis.
These people could be:
It’s important to mention that no one can own a dead body; it can’t be bought or sold as property.
Unfortunately, disagreements over funeral arrangements can happen to even the closest of families.
When a loved one passes away, it’s an emotional and stressful time, with lots of difficult decisions to be made.
Family members may have conflicting opinions over certain aspects of the funeral such as whether it’s a burial or cremation or whether to have a traditional ceremony or a celebration of life.
If there’s more than one person involved in organising a funeral, then disputes are not always avoidable.
Even if the deceased has left instructions for their funeral in their Will, disputes can still arise as these aren’t legally binding.
So, who has the final say over your funeral arrangements?
If you’ve made a Will, then your chosen executor(s) would have the final say.
However, if your executor(s) isn’t a relative then they may choose not to get involved in the funeral arrangements.
If this is the case, and there’s a dispute amongst family members, they could turn to the executor to make the final decision.
If you’ve not made a Will, then the appointed administrator (your next of kin) would have the final say.
Here’s an example of a dispute which involves the executor and the spouse of someone who’s passed:
If joint executors disagree over your arrangements, and they can’t come to any compromise, then they would need to apply to the court.
Bearing in mind that a judge can only decide who has the final say, not how the funeral should go ahead.
If there's been a disagreement over your funeral arrangements and/or the administration of your estate, then family members may challenge the validity of your Will (if you have one).
If your Will is deemed invalid, then this can cause a number of complications after you pass away.
Government guidelines for making a legally valid Will state you must:
Most people hire a professional to help with making a Will, as there’s less chance of any mistakes being made.
According to a survey by SunLife, 47% of people who arranged a funeral in 2023 had received funeral wishes directly from their loved one.
Of those who didn't know of any funeral wishes, 23% said this could've prevented disagreements among family members when arranging the funeral.
Other ways people were told about their loved one's funeral wishes:
If you’re a UK resident, aged between 50 - 85, you’re guaranteed acceptance for over 50 life insurance.
Over 50s life insurance can help towards paying for your funeral by providing a cash lump sum. Alternatively, it could provide a small inheritance for loved ones to enjoy as they wish.
No medical information is required and, depending on your age, budget and smoking status, you could take out cover up to £20,000 - enough to cover the £9,658 average cost of dying[1].
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[1] https://www.sunlife.co.uk/funeral-costs/
[2] https://www.gov.uk/make-will/make-sure-your-will-is-legal